"May Her Memory Be for a Blessing"
BTW: YES I am ok, I still feel that for the first year I need to do this.
funny thing happened this morning. On the way to the bus I met one of the people that live near me. They was returning from walking their dog. As I was passing them the dog (very small one) got up on it's hine legs and gave me a hug. [it looked like a very friendy dog]. I am guessing that Brenda had a hand in that :)